at makes this girl come to him?"
But then, at some stage near the close of the evening, she said
something that by this time I had heard many times before: "I'd like to have
you come over to my room tonight, but we're having a party, so perhaps
tomorrow night..." -- and I knew what this "perhaps tomorrow night" meant:
NOTHING.
Well, I noticed throughout the evening that this girl -- her name was
Gloria -- talked quite often with the master of ceremonies, during the show,
and on her way to and from the ladies' room. So one time, when she was in
the ladies' room and the master of ceremonies happened to be walking near my
table, I impulsively took a guess and said to him, "Your wife is a very nice
woman."
He said, "Yes, thank you," and we started to talk a little. He figured
she had told me. And when Gloria returned, she figured he had told me. So
they both talked to me a little bit, and invited me to go over to their
place that night after the bar closed.
At two o'clock in the morning I went over to their motel with them.
There wasn't any party, of course, and we talked a long time. They showed me
a photo album with pictures of Gloria when her husband first met her in
Iowa, a cornfed, rather fattish-looking woman; then other pictures of her as
she reduced, and now she looked really nifty! He had taught her all kinds of
stuff, but he couldn't read or write, which was especially interesting
because he had the job, as master of ceremonies, of reading the names of the
acts and the performers who were in the amateur contest, and I hadn't even
noticed that he couldn't read what he was "reading"! (The next night I saw
what they did. While she was bringing a person on or off the stage, she
glanced at the slip of paper in his hand and whispered the names of the next
performers and the title of the act to him as she went by.)
They were a very interesting, friendly couple, and we had many
interesting conversations. I recalled how we had met, and I asked them why
Tamara was always introducing the new girls to me.
Gloria replied, "When Tamara was about to introduce me to you, she
said, 'Now I'm going to introduce you to the real spender around here!' "
I had to think a moment before I realized that the sixteen-dollar
bottle of champagne bought with such a vigorous and misunderstood "never
mind!" turned out to be a good investment. I apparently had the reputation
of being some kind of eccentric who always came in not dressed up, not in a
neat suit, but always ready to spend lots of money on the girls.
Eventually I told them that I was struck by something: "I'm fairly
intelligent," I said, "but probably only about physics. But in that bar
there are lots of intelligent guys -- oil guys, mineral guys, important
businessmen, and so forth -- and all the time they're buying the girls
drinks, and they get nothin' for it!" (By this time I had decided that
nobody else was getting anything out of all those drinks either.) "How is it
possible," I asked, "that an 'intelligent' guy can be such a goddamn fool
when he gets into a bar?"
The master said, "This I know all about. I know exactly how it all
works. I will give you lessons, so that hereafter you can get something from
a girl in a bar like this. But before I give you the lessons, I must
demonstrate that I really know what I'm talking about. So to do that, Gloria
will get a man to buy you a champagne cocktail."
I say, "OK," though I'm thinking, "How the hell are they gonna do it?"
The master continued: "Now you must do exactly as we tell you. Tomorrow
night you should sit some distance from Gloria in the bar, and when she
gives you a sign, all you have to do is walk by."
"Yes," says Gloria. "It'll be easy."
The next night I go to the bar and sit in the corner, where I can keep
my eye on Gloria from a distance. After a while, sure enough, there's some
guy sitting with her, and after a little while longer the guy's happy and
Gloria gives me a wink. I get up and nonchalantly saunter by. Just as I'm
passing, Gloria turns around and says in a real friendly and bright voice,
"Oh, hi, Dick! When did you get back into town? Where have you been?"
At this moment the guy turns around to see who this "Dick" is, and I
can see in his eyes something I understand completely, since I have been in
that position so often myself.
First look: "Oh-oh, competition coming up. He's gonna take her away
from me after I bought her a drink! What's gonna happen?"
Next look: "No, it's just a casual friend. They seem to know each other
from some time back." I could see all this. I could read it on his face. I
knew exactly what he was going through.
Gloria turns to him and says, "Jim, I'd like you to meet an old friend
of mine, Dick Feynman."
Next look: "I know what I'll do; I'll be kind to this guy so that
she'll like me more."
Jim turns to me and says, "Hi, Dick. How about a drink?"
"Fine!" I say.
"What'll ya have?"
"Whatever she's having."
"Bartender, another champagne cocktail, please."
So it was easy; there was nothing to it. That night after the bar
closed I went again over to the master and Gloria's motel. They were
laughing and smiling, happy with how it worked out. "All right," I said,
"I'm absolutely convinced that you two know exactly what you're talking
about. Now, what about the lessons?"
"OK," he says. "The whole principle is this: The guy wants to be a
gentleman. He doesn't want to be thought of as impolite, crude, or
especially a cheapskate. As long as the girl knows the guy's motives so
well, it's easy to steer him in the direction she wants him to go.
"Therefore," he continued, "under no circumstances be a gentleman! You
must disrespect the girls. Furthermore, the very first rule is, don't buy a
girl anything -- not even a package of cigarettes -- until you've asked her
if she'll sleep with you, and you're convinced that she will, and that she's
not lying."
"Uh... you mean... you don't... uh... you just ask them?"
"OK," he says, "I know this is your first lesson, and it may be hard
for you to be so blunt. So you might buy her one thing -- just one little
something -- before you ask. But on the other hand, it will only make it
more difficult."
Well, someone only has to give me the principle, and I get the idea.
All during the next day I built up my psychology differently: I adopted the
attitude that those bar girls are all bitches, that they aren't worth
anything, and all they're in there for is to get you to buy them a drink,
and they're not going to give you a goddamn thing; I'm not going to be a
gentleman to such worthless bitches, and so on. I learned it till it was
automatic.
Then that night I was ready to try it out. I go into the bar as usual,
and right away my friend says, "Hey, Dick! Wait'll you see the girl I got
tonight! She had to go change her clothes, but she's coming right back."
"Yeah, yeah," I say, unimpressed, and I sit at another table to watch
the show. My friend's girl comes in just as the show starts, and I'm
thinking, "I don't give a damn how pretty she is; all she's doing is getting
him to buy her drinks, and she's going to give him nothing!"
After the first act my friend says, "Hey, Dick! I want you to meet Ann.
Ann, this is a good friend of mine, Dick Feynman."
I say "Hi" and keep looking at the show.
A few moments later Ann says to me, "Why don't you come and sit at the
table here with us?"
I think to myself, "Typical bitch: he's buying her drinks, and she's
inviting somebody else to the table." I say, "I can see fine from here."
A little while later a lieutenant from the military base nearby comes
in, dressed in a nice uniform. It isn't long, before we notice that Ann is
sitting over on the other side of the bar with the lieutenant!
Later that evening I'm sitting at the bar, Ann is dancing with the
lieutenant, and when the lieutenant's back is toward me and she's facing me,
she smiles very pleasantly to me. I think again, "Some bitch! Now she's
doing this trick on the lieutenant even!"
Then I get a good idea: I don't look at her until the lieutenant can
also see me, and then I smile back at her, so the lieutenant will know
what's going on. So her trick didn't work for long.
A few minutes later she's not with the lieutenant any more, but asking
the bartender for her coat and handbag, saying in a loud, obvious voice,
"I'd like to go for a walk. Does anybody want to go for a walk with me?"
I think to myself, "You can keep saying no and pushing them off, but
you can't do it permanently, or you won't get anywhere. There comes a time
when you have to go along." So I say coolly, "I'll walk with you." So we go
out. We walk down the street a few blocks and see a cafe, and she says,
"I've got an idea -- let's get some coffee and sandwiches, and go over to my
place and eat them."
The idea sounds pretty good, so we go into the cafe and she orders
three coffees and three sandwiches and I pay for them.
As we're going out of the cafe, I think to myself, "Something's wrong:
too many sandwiches!"
On the way to her motel she says, "You know, I won't have time to eat
these sandwiches with you, because a lieutenant is coming over..."
I think to myself, "See, I flunked. The master gave me a lesson on what
to do, and I flunked. I bought her $1.10 worth of sandwiches, and hadn't
asked her anything, and now I know I'm gonna get nothing! I have to recover,
if only for the pride of my teacher."
I stop suddenly and I say to her, "You... are worse than a WHORE!"
"Whaddya mean?"
'"You got me to buy these sandwiches, and what am I going to get for
it? Nothing!"
"Well, you cheapskate!" she says. "If that's the way you feel, I'll pay
you back for the sandwiches!"
I called her bluff: "Pay me back, then."
She was astonished. She reached into her pocketbook, took out the
little bit of money that she had and gave it to me. I took my sandwich and
coffee and went off.
After I was through eating, I went back to the bar to report to the
master. I explained everything, and told him I was sorry that I flunked, but
I tried to recover.
He said very calmly, "It's OK, Dick; it's all right. Since you ended up
not buying her anything, she's gonna sleep with you tonight."
"What?"
"That's right," he said confidently; "she's gonna sleep with you. I
know that."
"But she isn't even here! She's at her place with the lieu --"
"It's all right."
Two o'clock comes around, the bar closes, and Ann hasn't appeared. I
ask the master and his wife if I can come over to their place again. They
say sure.
Just as we're coming out of the bar, here comes Ann, running across
Route 66 toward me. She puts her arm in mine, and says, "Come on, let's go
over to my place."
The master was right. So the lesson was terrific!
When I was back at Cornell in the fall, I was dancing with the sister
of a grad student, who was visiting from Virginia. She was very nice, and
suddenly I got this idea: "Let's go to a bar and have a drink," I said.
On the way to the bar I was working up nerve to try the master's lesson
on an ordinary girl. After all, you don't feel so bad disrespecting a bar
girl who's trying to get you to buy her drinks -- but a nice, ordinary,
Southern girl?
We went into the bar, and before I sat down, I said, "Listen, before I
buy you a drink, I want to know one thing: Will you sleep with me tonight?"
"Yes."
So it worked even with an ordinary girl! But no matter how effective
the lesson was, I never really used it after that. I didn't enjoy doing it
that way. But it was interesting to know that things worked much differently
from how I was brought up.
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Lucky Numbers
One day at Princeton I was sitting in the lounge and overheard some
mathematicians talking about the series for ex, which is 1 + x + x2/2! +
x3/3! Each term you get by multiplying the preceding term by x and dividing
by the next number. For example, to get the next term after x4/4! you
multiply that term by x and divide by 5. It's very simple.
When I was a kid I was excited by series, and had played with this
thing. I had computed e using that series, and had seen how quickly the new
terms became very small.
I mumbled something about how it was easy to calculate e to any power
using that series (you just substitute the power for x).
"Oh yeah?" they said. "Well, then what's e to the 3.3?" said some joker
-- I think it was Tukey.
I say, "That's easy. It's 27.11."
Tukey knows it isn't so easy to compute all that in your head. "Hey!
How'd you do that?"
Another guy says, "You know Feynman, he's just faking it. It's not
really right."
They go to get a table, and while they're doing that, I put on a few
more figures: "27.1126," I say.
They find it in the table. "It's right! But how'd you do it!"
"I just summed the series."
"Nobody can sum the series that fast. You must just happen to know that
one. How about e to the 3?"
"Look," I say. "It's hard work! Only one a day!"
"Hah! It's a fake!" they say, happily.
"All right," I say, "It's 20.085."
They look in the book as I put a few more figures on. They're all
excited now, because I got another one right.
Here are these great mathematicians of the day, puzzled at how I can
compute e to any power! One of them says, "He just can't be substituting and
summing -- it's too hard. There's some trick. You couldn't do just any old
number like e to the 1.4."
I say, "It's hard work, but for you, OK. It's 4.05."
As they're looking it up, I put on a few more digits and say, "And
that's the last one for the day!" and walk out.
What happened was this: I happened to know three numbers -- the
logarithm of 10 to the base e (needed to convert numbers from base 10 to
base e), which is 2.3026 (so I knew that e to the 2.3 is very close to 10),
and because of radioactivity (mean-life and half-life), I knew the log of 2
to the base e, which is .69315 (so I also knew that e to the .7 is nearly
equal to 2). I also knew e (to the 1), which is 2.71828.
The first number they gave me was e to the 3.3, which is e to the 2.3
-- ten-times e, or 27.18. While they were sweating about how I was doing it,
I was correcting for the extra .0026 -- 2.3026 is a little high.
I knew I couldn't do another one; that was sheer luck. But then the guy
said e to the 3: that's e to the 2.3 times e to the .7, or ten times two. So
I knew it was 20. something, and while they were worrying how I did it, I
adjusted for the .693.
Now I was sure I couldn't do another one, because the last one was
again by sheer luck. But the guy said e to the 1.4, which is e to the .7
times itself. So all I had to do is fix up 4 a little bit!
They never did figure out how I did it.
When I was at Los Alamos I found out that Hans Bethe was absolutely
topnotch at calculating. For example, one time we were putting some numbers
into a formula, and got to 48 squared. I reach for the Marchant calculator,
and he says, "That's 2300." I begin to push the buttons, and he says, "If
you want it exactly, it's 2304."
The machine says 2304. "Gee! That's pretty remarkable!" I say.
"Don't you know how to square numbers near 50?" he says. "You square 50
-- that's 2500 -- and subtract 100 times the difference of your number from
50 (in this case it's 2), so you have 2300. If you want the correction,
square the difference and add it on. That makes 2304."
A few minutes later we need to take the cube root of 2 1/2. Now to take
cube roots on the Marchant you had to use a table for the first
approximation. I open the drawer to get the table -- it takes a little
longer this time -- and he says, "It's about 1.35."
I try it out on the Marchant and it's right. "How did you do that one?"
I ask. "Do you have a secret for taking cube roots of numbers?"
"Oh," he says, "the log of 2 1/2 is so-and-so. Now one-third of that
log is between the logs of 1.3, which is this, and 1.4, which is that, so I
interpolated."
So I found out something: first, he knows the log tables; second, the
amount of arithmetic he did to make the interpolation alone would have taken
me longer to do than reach for the table and punch the buttons on the
calculator. I was very impressed.
After that, I tried to do those things. I memorized a few logs, and
began to notice things. For instance, if somebody says, "What is 28
squared?" you notice that the square root of 2 is 1.4, and 28 is 20 times
1.4, so the square of 28 must be around 400 times 2, or 800.
If somebody comes along and wants to divide 1 by 1.73, you can tell
them immediately that it's .577, because you notice that 1.73 is nearly the
square root of 3, so 1/1.73 must be one-third of the square root of 3. And
if it's 1/1.73, that's equal to the inverse of 7/4, and you've memorized the
repeating decimals for sevenths: .571428...
I had a lot of fun trying to do arithmetic fast, by tricks, with Hans.
It was very rare that I'd see something he didn't see and beat him to the
answer, and he'd laugh his hearty laugh when I'd get one. He was nearly
always able to get the answer to any problem within a percent. It was easy
for him -- every number was near something he knew.
One day I was feeling my oats. It was lunch time in the technical area,
and I don't know how I got the idea, but I announced, "I can work out in
sixty seconds the answer to any problem that anybody can state in ten
seconds, to 10 percent!"
People started giving me problems they thought were difficult, such as
integrating a function like 1/(1 + x4), which hardly changed over the range
they gave me. The hardest one somebody gave me was the binomial coefficient
of x10 in (1 + x)20; I got that just in time.
They were all giving me problems and I was feeling great, when Paul
Olum walked by in the hall. Paul had worked with me for a while at Princeton
before coming out to Los Alamos, and he was always cleverer than I was. For
instance, one day I was absent-mindedly playing with one of those measuring
tapes that snap back into your hand when you push a button. The tape would
always slap over and hit my hand, and it hurt a little bit. "Geez!" I
exclaimed. "What a dope I am. I keep playing with this thing, and it hurts
me every time."
He said, "You don't hold it right," and took the damn thing, pulled out
the tape, pushed the button, and it came right back. No hurt.
"Wow! How do you do that?" I exclaimed.
"Figure it out!"
For the next two weeks I'm walking all around Princeton, snapping this
tape back until my hand is absolutely raw. Finally I can't take it any
longer. "Paul! I give up! How the hell do you hold it so it doesn't hurt?"
"Who says it doesn't hurt? It hurts me too!"
I felt so stupid. He had gotten me to go around and hurt my hand for
two weeks!
So Paul is walking past the lunch place and these guys are all excited.
"Hey, Paul!" they call out. "Feynman's terrific! We give him a problem that
can be stated in ten seconds, and in a minute he gets the answer to 10
percent. Why don't you give him one?"
Without hardly stopping, he says, "The tangent of 10 to the 100th."
I was sunk: you have to divide by pi to 100 decimal places! It was
hopeless.
One time I boasted, "I can do by other methods any integral anybody
else needs contour integration to do."
So Paul puts up this tremendous damn integral he had obtained by
starting out with a complex function that he knew the answer to, taking out
the real part of it and leaving only the complex part. He had unwrapped it
so it was only possible by contour integration! He was always deflating me
like that. He was a very smart fellow.
The first time I was in Brazil I was eating a noon meal at I don't know
what time -- I was always in the restaurants at the wrong time -- and I was
the only customer in the place. I was eating rice with steak (which I
loved), and there were about four waiters standing around.
A Japanese man came into the restaurant. I had seen him before,
wandering around; he was trying to sell abacuses.
He started to talk to the waiters, and challenged them: He said he
could add numbers faster than any of them could do.
The waiters didn't want to lose face, so they said, "Yeah, yeah. Why
don't you go over and challenge the customer over there?"
The man came over. I protested, "But I don't speak Portuguese well!"
The waiters laughed. "The numbers are easy," they said.
They brought me a pencil and paper.
The man asked a waiter to call out some numbers to add. He beat me
hollow, because while I was writing the numbers down, he was already adding
them as he went along.
I suggested that the waiter write down two identical lists of numbers
and hand them to us at the same time. It didn't make much difference. He
still beat me by quite a bit.
However, the man got a little bit excited: he wanted to prove himself
some more. "Multipliqao!" he said.
Somebody wrote down a problem. He beat me again, but not by much,
because I'm pretty good at products.
The man then made a mistake: he proposed we go on to division. What he
didn't realize was, the harder the problem, the better chance I had.
We both did a long division problem. It was a tie.
This bothered the hell out of the Japanese man, because he was
apparently very well trained on the abacus, and here he was almost beaten by
this customer in a restaurant.
"Raios cubicos!" he says, with a vengeance. Cube roots! He wants to do
cube roots by arithmetic! It's hard to find a more difficult fundamental
problem in arithmetic. It must have been his topnotch exercise in
abacus-land.
He writes a number on some paper -- any old number -- and I still
remember it: 1729.03. He starts working on it, mumbling and grumbling:
"Mmmmmmagmmmmbrrr" -- he's working like a demon! He's poring away, doing
this cube root.
Meanwhile I'm just sitting there.
One of the waiters says, "What are you doing?"
I point to my head. "Thinking!" I say. I write down 12 on the paper.
After a little while I've got 12.002.
The man with the abacus wipes the sweat off his forehead: "Twelve!" he
says.
"Oh, no!" I say. "More digits! More digits!" I know that in taking a
cube root by arithmetic, each new digit is even more work than the one
before. It's a hard job.
He buries himself again, grunting, "Rrrrgrrrrmmmmmm..." while I add on
two more digits. He finally lifts his head to say, "12.0!"
The waiters are all excited and happy. They tell the man, "Look! He
does it only by thinking, and you need an abacus! He's got more digits!"
He was completely washed out, and left, humiliated. The waiters
congratulated each other.
How did the customer beat the abacus? The number was 1729.03. I
happened to know that a cubic foot contains 1728 cubic inches, so the answer
is a tiny bit more than 12. The excess, 1.03, is only one part in nearly
2000, and I had learned in calculus that for small fractions, the cube
root's excess is one-third of the number's excess. So all I had to do is
find the fraction 1/1728, and multiply by 4 (divide by 3 and multiply by
12). So I was able to pull out a whole lot of digits that way.
A few weeks later the man came into the cocktail lounge of the hotel I
was staying at. He recognized me and came over. "Tell me," he said, "how
were you able to do that cube-root problem so fast?"
I started to explain that it was an approximate method, and had to do
with the percentage of error. "Suppose you had given me 28. Now, the cube
root of 27 is 3..."
He picks up his abacus: zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz -- "Oh yes," he says.
I realized something: he doesn't know numbers. With the abacus, you
don't have to memorize a lot of arithmetic combinations; all you have to do
is learn how to push the little beads up and down. You don't have to
memorize 9 + 7 = 16; you just know that when you add 9 you push a ten's bead
up and pull a one's bead down. So we're slower at basic arithmetic, but we
know numbers.
Furthermore, the whole idea of an approximate method was beyond him,
even though a cube root often cannot be computed exactly by any method. So I
never could teach him how I did cube roots or explain how lucky I was that
he happened to choose 1729.03.
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O Americana, Outra Vez!
One time I picked up a hitchhiker who told me how interesting South
America was, and that I ought to go there. I complained that the language is
different, but he said just go ahead and learn it -- it's no big problem. So
I thought, that's a good idea: I'll go to South America.
Cornell had some foreign language classes which followed a method used
during the war, in which small groups of about ten students and one native
speaker speak only the foreign language -- nothing else. Since I was a
rather young-looking professor there at Cornell, I decided to take the class
as if I were a regular student. And since I didn't know yet where I was
going to end up in South America, I decided to take Spanish, because the
great majority of the countries there speak Spanish.
So when it was time to register for the class, we were standing
outside, ready to go into the classroom, when this pneumatic blonde came
along. You know how once in a while you get this feeling, WOW? She looked
terrific. I said to myself, "Maybe she's going to be in the Spanish class --
that'll be great!" But no, she walked into the Portuguese class. So I
figured, What the hell -- I might as well learn Portuguese.
I started walking right after her when this Anglo-Saxon attitude that I
have said, "No, that's not a good reason to decide which language to speak."
So I went back and signed up for the Spanish class, to my utter regret.
Some time later I was at a Physics Society meeting in New York, and I
found myself sitting next to Jaime Tiomno, from Brazil, and he asked, "What
are you going to do next summer?"
"I'm thinking of visiting South America."
"Oh! Why don't you come to Brazil? I'll get a position for you at the
Center for Physical Research."
So now I had to convert all that Spanish into Portuguese!
I found a Portuguese graduate student at Cornell, and twice a week he
gave me lessons, so I was able to alter what I had learned.
On the plane to Brazil I started out sitting next to a guy from
Colombia who spoke only Spanish: so I wouldn't talk to him because I didn't
want to get confused again. But sitting in front of me were two guys who
were talking Portuguese. I had never heard real Portuguese; I had only had
this teacher who had talked very slowly and clearly. So here are these two
guys talking a blue streak, brrrrrrr-a-ta brrrrrrr-a-ta, and I can't even
hear the word for "I," or the word for "the," or anything.
Finally, when we made a refueling stop in Trinidad, I went up to the
two fellas and said very slowly in Portuguese, or what I thought was
Portuguese, "Excuse me... can you understand... what I am saying to you
now?"
"Pues nao, porque nao?" -- "Sure, why not?" they replied.
So I explained as best I could that I had been learning Portuguese for
some months now, but I had never heard it spoken in conversation, and I was
listening to them on the airplane, but couldn't understand a word they were
saying.
"Oh," they said with a laugh, "Nao e Portugues! E Ladao! Judeo!" What
they were speaking was to Portuguese as Yiddish is to German, so you can
imagine a guy who's been studying German sitting behind two guys talking
Yiddish, trying to figure out what's the matter. It's obviously German, but
it doesn't work. He must not have learned German very well.
When we got back on the plane, they pointed out another man who did
speak Portuguese, so I sat next to him. He had been studying neurosurgery in
Maryland, so it was very easy to talk with him -- as long as it was about
cirugia neural, o cerebreu, and other such "complicated" things. The long
words are actually quite easy to translate into Portuguese because the only
difference is their endings: "-tion" in English is "-c,ao" in Portuguese;
"-ly" is "-mente," and so on. But when he looked out the window and said
something simple, I was lost: I couldn't decipher "the sky is blue."
I got off the plane in Recife (the Brazilian government was going to
pay the part from Recife to Rio) and was met by the father-in-law of Cesar
Lattes, who was the director of the Center for Physical Research in Rio, his
wife, and another man. As the men were off getting my luggage, the lady
started talking to me in Portuguese: "You speak Portuguese? How nice! How
was it that you learned Portuguese?"
I replied slowly, with great effort. "First, I started to learn
Spanish... then I discovered I was going to Brazil..." Now I wanted to say,
"So, I learned Portuguese," but I couldn't think of the word for "so." I
knew how to make BIG words, though, so I finished the sentence like this:
"CONSEQUENTEMENTE, apprendi Portugues!"
When the two men came back with the baggage, she said, "Oh, he speaks
Portuguese! And with such wonderful words: CONSEQUENTEMENTE!"
Then an announcement came over the loudspeaker. The flight to Rio was
canceled, and there wouldn't be another one till next Tuesday -- and I had
to be in Rio on Monday, at the latest.
I got all upset. "Maybe there's a cargo plane. I'll travel in a cargo
plane," I said.
"Professor!" they said, "It's really quite nice here in Recife. We'll
show you around. Why don't you relax -- you're in Brazil."
That evening I went for a walk in town, and came upon a small crowd of
people standing around a great big rectangular hole in the road -- it had
been dug for sewer pipes, or something -- and there, sitting exactly in the
hole, was a car. It was marvelous: it fitted absolutely perfectly, with its
roof level with the road. The workmen hadn't bothered to put up any signs at
the end of the day, and the guy had simply driven into it. I noticed a
difference: When we'd dig a hole, there'd be all kinds of detour signs and
flashing lights to protect us. There, they dig the hole, and when they're
finished for the day, they just leave.
Anyway, Recife was a nice town, and I did wait until next Tuesday to
fly to Rio.
When I got to Rio I met Cesar Lattes. The national TV network wanted to
make some pictures of our meeting, so they started filming, but without any
sound. The cameramen said, "Act as if you're talking. Say something --
anything."
So Lattes asked me, "Have you found a sleeping dictionary yet?"
That night, Brazilian TV audiences saw the director of the Center for
Physical Research welcome the Visiting Professor from the United States, but
little did they know that the subject of their conversation was finding a
girl to spend the night with!
When I got to the center, we had to decide when I would give my
lectures -- in the morning, or afternoon.
Lattes said, "The students prefer the afternoon."
"So let's have them in the afternoon."
"But the beach is nice in the afternoon, so why don't you give the
lectures in the morning, so you can enjoy the beach in the afternoon."
"But you said the students prefer to have them in the afternoon."
"Don't worry about that. Do what's most convenient for you! Enjoy the
beach in the afternoon."
So I learned how to look at life in a way that's different from the way
it is where I come from. First, they weren't in the same hurry that I was.
And second, if it's better for you, never mind! So I gave the lectures in
the morning and enjoyed the beach in the afternoon. And had I learned that
lesson earlier, I would have learned Portuguese in the first place, instead
of Spanish.
I thought at first that I would give my lectures in English, but I
noticed something: When the students were explaining something to me in
Portuguese, I couldn't understand it very well, even though I knew a certain
amount of Portuguese. It was not exactly clear to me whether they had said
"increase," or "decrease," or "not increase," or "not decrease," or
"decrease slowly." But when they struggled with English, they'd say "ahp" or
"doon," and I knew which way it was, even though the pronunciation was lousy
and the grammar was all screwed up. So I realized that if I was going to
talk to them and try to teach them, it would be better for me to talk in
Portuguese, poor as it was. It would be easier for them to understand.
During that first time in Brazil, which lasted six weeks, I was invited
to give a talk at the Brazilian Academy of Sciences about some work in
quantum electrodynamics that I had just done. I thought I would give the
talk in Portuguese, and two students at the center said they would help me
with it. I began by writing out my talk in absolutely lousy Portuguese. I
wrote it myself, because if they had written it, there would be too many
words I didn't know and couldn't pronounce correctly. So I wrote it, and
they fixed up all the grammar, fixed up the words and made it nice, but it
was still at the level that I could read easily and know more or less what I
was saying. They practiced with me to get the pronunciations absolutely
right: the "de" should be in between "deh" and "day" -- it had to be just
so.
I got to the Brazilian Academy of Sciences meeting, and the first
speaker, a chemist, got up and gave his talk -- in English. Was he trying to
be polite, or what? I couldn't understand what he was saying because his
pronunciation was so bad, but maybe everybody else had the same accent so
they could understand him; I don't know. Then the next guy gets up, and
gives his talk in English!
When it was my turn, I got up and said, "I'm sorry; I hadn't realized
that the official language of the Brazilian Academy of Sciences was English,
and therefore I did not prepare my talk in English. So please excuse me, but
I'm going to have to give it in Portuguese."
So I read the thing, and everybody was very pleased with it.
The next guy to get up said, "Following the example of my colleague
from the United States, I also will give my talk in Portuguese." So, for all
I know, I changed the tradition of what language is used in the Brazilian
Academy of Sciences.
Some years later, I met a man from Brazil who quoted to me the exact
sentences I had used at the beginning of my talk to the Academy. So
apparently it made quite an impression on them.
But the language was always difficult for me, and I kept working on it
all the time, reading the newspaper, and so on. I kept on giving my lectures
in Portuguese -- what I call "Feynman's Portuguese," which I knew couldn't
be the same as real Portuguese, because I could understand what I was
saying, while I couldn't understand what the people in the street were
saying.
Because I liked it so much that first time in Brazil, I went again a
year later, this time for ten months. This time I lectured at the University
of Rio, which was supposed to pay me, but they never did, so the center kept
giving me the money I was supposed to get from the university.
I finally ended up staying in a hotel right on the beach at Copacabana,
called the Miramar. For a while I had a room on the thirteenth floor, where
I could look out the window at the ocean and watch the girls on the beach.
It turned out that this hotel was the one that the airline pilots and
the stewardesses from Pan American Airlines stayed at when they would "lay
over" -- a term that always bothered me a little bit. Their rooms were
always on the fourth floor, and late at night there would often be a certain
amount of sheepish sneaking up and down in the elevator.
One time I went away for a few weeks on a trip, and when I came back
the manager told me he had to book my room to somebody else, since it was
the last available empty room, and that he had moved my stuff to a new room.
It was a room right over the kitchen, that people usually didn't stay
in very long. The manager must have figured that I was the only guy who
could see the advantages of that room sufficiently clearly that I would
tolerate the smells and not complain. I didn't complain: It was on the
fourth floor, near the stewardesses. It saved a lot of problems.
The people from the airlines were somewhat bored with their lives,
strangely enough, and at night they would often go to bars to drink. I liked
them all, and in order to be sociable, I would go with them to the bar to
have a few drinks, several nights a week.
One day, about 3:30 in the afternoon, I was walking along the sidewalk
opposite the beach at Copacabana past a bar. I suddenly got this treMENdous,
strong feeling: "That's just what I want; that'll fit just right. I'd just
love to have a drink right now!"
I started to walk into the bar, and I suddenly thought to myself, "Wait
a minute! It's the middle of the afternoon. There's nobody here. There's no
social reason to drink. Why do you have such a terribly strong feeling that
you have to have a drink?" -- and I got scared.
I never drank ever again, since then. I suppose I really wasn't in any
danger, because I found it very easy to stop. But that strong feeling that I
didn't understand frightened me. You see, I get such fun out of thinking
that I don't want to destroy this most pleasant machine that makes life such
a big kick. It's the same reason that, later on, I was reluctant to try
experiments with LSD in spite of my curiosity about hallucinations.
Near the end of that year in Brazil I took one of the air hostesses --
a very lovely girl with braids -- to the museum. As we went through the
Egyptian section, I found myself telling her things like, "The wings on the
sarcophagus mean such-and-such, and in these vases they used to put the
entrails, and around the corner there oughta be a so-and-so..." and I
thought to myself, "You know where you learned all that stuff? From Mary
Lou" -- and I got lonely for her.
I met Mary Lou at Cornell and later, when I came to Pasadena, I found
that she had come to Westwood, nearby. I liked her for a while, but we used
to argue a bit; finally we decided it was hopeless, and we separated. But
after a year of taking out these air hostesses and not really getting
anywhere, I was frustrated. So when I was telling this girl all these
things, I thought Mary Lou really was quite wonderful, and we shouldn't have
had all those arguments.
I wrote a letter to her and proposed. Somebody who's wise could have
told me that was dangerous: When you're away and you've got nothing but
paper, and you're feeling lonely, you remember all the good things and you
can't remember the reasons you had the arguments. And it didn't work out.
The arguments started again right away, and the marriage lasted for only two
years.
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